tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post7301667056106558665..comments2023-05-23T03:07:47.554-05:00Comments on Sometimes Daddies Cry...a Divorced Dads Forum.: Christmas Letter to my DaughterCraig Daliessiohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04622536691388864746noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-49600822839308036982016-12-25T05:38:54.301-06:002016-12-25T05:38:54.301-06:00I am sitting here all alone on Christmas morning w...I am sitting here all alone on Christmas morning with a tree up and an empty house. It has almost been a year since my ex ended it all after an affair. I see my 2 boys 5-8 years old on a part time basis. I cry almost every day I am not with them and find it even harder right after they get dropped off at her place. I use to love the holiday season but now it does not feel the same as my house is empty and childless. I go through the motions daily and find this morning extremely difficult. This blog has brought some relief knowing I am not the only dad suffering the loss of our kids to the exes and the anti-male family court system. Men know it never gets easier but finding ways to numb the pain does. Good luck men and dads during the season and know somewhere in Canada a lone father is suffering just like you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-49504887958638215262016-11-22T21:21:41.306-06:002016-11-22T21:21:41.306-06:00I stumbled upon this blog after searching up somet...I stumbled upon this blog after searching up something along the lines of missing my Dad and crying about it because my parents are divorced and I live with my mom, this post made me cry a big pool of tears. I miss my dad all the time when Im not with him. Im 20 now and still living with my mom but it breaks my heart everyday to know that he has a life of his own without me and since his remarriage, we've stopped our little christmas traditions and things. I miss living part time with him, he did everything to make me smile and still does. I love him so much but my heart hurts because I can't see him everyday and other people can.<br />Sometimes daughters cry.... Thanks for giving me some insight into the Daddy's world.I hope it's gotten somewhat better.<br />xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-32635029687381391282015-02-02T15:28:00.456-06:002015-02-02T15:28:00.456-06:00Up until May 2014, I was in a completely different...Up until May 2014, I was in a completely different world than you. But I blogged just the same to take away the pain. Thanks for existing. I was sent this blog from my brother. I don't think I need to explain why he stumbled upon your blog. Just, thank you for keeping such a serious part of your life open for others to not feel so alone when they are faced with a similar situation.Domenicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02905830366188374155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-74827872026755210142015-01-10T20:14:53.716-06:002015-01-10T20:14:53.716-06:00Craig,
This letter touched my heart! Of course I...Craig,<br /><br />This letter touched my heart! Of course I'm now a single dad, never married, yet dated my girlfriend for 7 years, and I loved her too. Her mom lives in Philly now (Center City), me I'm in South Jersey. I see my daughter, every other weekend and every other Wednesday, like most non-custodial parents. I love my little girl so much! Christmas is my favorite time of year too! This year, 2014, I didn't see her at all for Christmas or Christmas Eve, or even for NYE or day, broke my heart. I cried alot! All because I took her Thanksgiving to see her cousins, who she loves in California. We love looking at Christmas lights too! But, I'm going to stay positive, even though my life isn't exactly where I'd like it to be. I work hard, and my support is high, which makes it much harder for me. Anyway, great letter! I love your blog.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06553258463902760201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-56097450563498347182015-01-07T11:05:31.491-06:002015-01-07T11:05:31.491-06:00WOW, she is super lucky to have you as a daddy! WOW, she is super lucky to have you as a daddy! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-1587499649313321662014-12-24T14:06:57.640-06:002014-12-24T14:06:57.640-06:00Wonderful letter. I am a first time dad that love...Wonderful letter. I am a first time dad that loves my little infant so much. Our court ruling in December limits me to 6 hours/week seeing her. 6 hours, that's all. Everytime I see her she's grown or changed in the slightest of way and it tears me up knowing that I won't ever get to see her day in and day out like her mother does. It's wholly unfair when a dad wants to be involved but is restricted by the vitriol of his ex and the courts.<br /><br />Please tell me this gets better?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com