tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post678700321697592114..comments2023-05-23T03:07:47.554-05:00Comments on Sometimes Daddies Cry...a Divorced Dads Forum.: Missing Your Kids IICraig Daliessiohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04622536691388864746noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-61106100128889859292016-03-15T22:47:16.055-05:002016-03-15T22:47:16.055-05:00No. My ex wife took my kids and ran with them to a...No. My ex wife took my kids and ran with them to another state. The judge in our divorce sided with her and allowed her to stay where she is. The alimony he awarded her is so high I can't afford to travel to see my kids. I feel like a corpse with no soul, I miss my kids so much I am dying slowly every day, but I will never go back with her, for 10 years I treated her like a queen and she trashed me...I can't even look at herAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00132437902063030038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-89309130591460158872015-08-11T18:38:26.276-05:002015-08-11T18:38:26.276-05:00I am selling my home bc I want to build a new home...I am selling my home bc I want to build a new home. My plan is to sell and move in with my brother and sister n law while it's being built. My ex just told me my daughter can't stay with me. Can she stop me from keeping my daughter on sched nights per custody judgement? My brother and wife are great people. He is probation officer and she is school teacher. My daughter also would have her own room there. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-47773084474369312032015-07-13T10:04:54.510-05:002015-07-13T10:04:54.510-05:00My ex wife and I split a year and half ago. I'...My ex wife and I split a year and half ago. I'm in the military and am stationed in Japan so for the last year and half I've been doing the FaceTime thing as often as I can. My daughter is now 5 and I get to spend 2 weeks a year with her in the summer. <br /><br /> I have to be honest, I've considered many times giving up an awesome career to be closer to her in the states. The pain of facing 3 (possilbly 4) more years here in Japan before that option is available is frighting.<br /><br />Tonight I tried calling her and she told my ex "I don't want to talk to daddy." The words cut like a million knives into the depths of my soul. She is the light of my life and everything I live for. I'm so afraid I'm losing her because of the distance and the inability to be there for her. I'm dating an awesome young lady now, but to be honest sometimes I would take my cheating, now super religious, independent exwife back just to be with my daughter even if it meant I would be unhappy and would never be able to trust my exwife. <br /><br />Am I the only one crazy enough to think things like this? Are there any suggestions on how to keep my daughter from losing interest in me as her dad until I can move back to the States?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06550960708141823178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-55225998317041701202015-03-30T23:51:28.485-05:002015-03-30T23:51:28.485-05:00I miss my kids so bad. A question to all you fathe...I miss my kids so bad. A question to all you fathers. Would you go back into a bad relationship just to be with your kids again each day? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-35290163733654847832015-01-21T17:07:38.980-06:002015-01-21T17:07:38.980-06:00I can relate 100%. Met my now ex in my hometown, f...I can relate 100%. Met my now ex in my hometown, followed her off to her own country Germany. After 10 years of marriage and 2 kids it was over. I hate it. Stuck out here, utterly alone. Can't go home, because want to be here for the kids. She was always the social one, I just worked like an idiot to provide...now left with just my Wednesday afternoon and every other weekend. Struggling now at work...can't motivate myself to do anything. Have a girlfriend now who is by all accounts fantastic but at the same time I'm plagued with the knowledge that I'm not good enough. I'll I bring to the relationship are problems. My only real purpose is to keep going to earn money to provide for my kids and be able to see them the next time, but at the same time it rips me to bits every time I have to then give them back. This is my new life? It sucks. How long can I do this for? A few years maybe, but I'm running fumes. I don't have the courage to talk to people - british upbringing: keep your problems to yourself, always be cheerful and positive. I have friends but they don't want to hear my issues - they can't relate. My "purpose" is just so empty. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-60340246048859137112014-11-13T09:36:09.502-06:002014-11-13T09:36:09.502-06:00Thanks for sharing your story. This is a very vuln...Thanks for sharing your story. This is a very vulnerable post and it takes a real man to share it. Paternity Lawyer in Chicagohttp://pkfamilylaw.com/paternity/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2532545828899975303.post-49387334920544408822014-10-17T11:17:17.857-05:002014-10-17T11:17:17.857-05:00Only just discovered your blog and will read it pr...Only just discovered your blog and will read it properly tonight.<br />The pain of alienation can feel too much often... I am fighting with all my worth but it's a losing battle. Found myself on the brink of homelessness, jobless and rather alone too. Tough but hoping I can find the strength.<br />Regards Mark. UK dad. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com